Something a friend said to me this morning that really put emotional reaction in a much different perspective, at least for me:

[With regard to a potentially 'charged' situation..] Ask yourself, "How much does this really matter, compared to what's important to me?"

For some reason, that hit me like a brick between the eyes. As someone who can get really worked up over any grievance, this potentially changes the game for me. If I can take enough time to process that thought, seriously. I can probably avoid saying or doing things as an immediate reaction to a negative emotion. Especially when you consider that at this point in our modernized society, we are still unable to go back and time and change anything. 

Restraint = Temperance. Temperance = Grace. Grace = Insight. Insight = Empathy. Empathy = Peace.

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AuthorCheryl
Categoriesspirit food